True Happiness: The Essential Lesson I Wish School Taught Me – 2

You know what they say, emotions are like a rollercoaster ride - they can take you up, down, and all around! But don't worry, that's totally normal. Here is lesson number 2. This lesson was a really important one, as it helped me to show up everyday with greater peace, clarity and guidance. You can too! 

📔 Lesson 2: Emotions are Messengers, Not Enemies

Emotions can be intense and overwhelming at times, but they are not something to be feared or avoided. Instead, they are messengers that provide us with valuable information about our inner state and our needs.

The first step in embracing our emotions is to acknowledge them. We need to be aware of our emotions and not judge ourselves for feeling a certain way.

Our emotions are valid, and we should give ourselves permission to feel them. Once we have recognized and named our emotions, we can start to explore their origins.

For instance, if we are feeling anxious, we can try to identify the root cause of that anxiety. Is it a specific situation or event that is triggering our anxiety, or is it a pattern of thinking that we need to address?

Once we have identified the underlying cause, we can start to work on a plan to manage the emotion more effectively.

Another key aspect of emotional intelligence is developing empathy towards ourselves. This means treating ourselves with the same kindness and understanding that we would extend to a close friend.

Instead of criticizing ourselves for feeling a certain way, we can offer ourselves compassion and support. This helps us to build resilience and bounce back from difficult emotions more easily.

It's important to remember that emotions are not always rational or logical. We might feel angry, sad, or anxious for no apparent reason, and that's okay.

Our emotions don't always have to make sense. Sometimes, they are simply a reflection of our inner state and need to be expressed in a healthy way.

One way to express our emotions constructively is through creative activities. Doodling can be a cathartic way to release emotions and express ourselves in a safe and healthy way. Physical exercise, such as running, going for a walk or yoga, can also be an effective way to manage emotions and reduce stress.

All this to be said, emotions are messengers, not enemies. They provide us with valuable information about our inner state and our needs.

By embracing and understanding our emotions, we can develop emotional intelligence and respond to them in a healthy and constructive way.

Remember to be kind to yourself, practice empathy, and find healthy ways to express and manage your emotions. By doing so, you can experience emotional well-being and greater happiness.